O-mama - Opinionated Moms

Politics are BORING, right? Voter turnout is typically dismal in the United States, particularly in mid-term and primary elections.  No one cares about the debates…we go about our day, doing our thing and then we wonder how so-n-so got in office.  Hmmm?  Maybe that's why the candidates feel like they need to jump up and down and, basically, stand on their heads to get our attention?!  Like kids fighting over who gets to play on the monkey bars, American politics has degenerated into childish antics. “He did this….she did that….that’s not fair…that’s not true...it's my turn...I want, I want, I want...waaaa!”  MAMAs - sound familiar?  Of course it does.  Our kids interact with this same immature level of banter.  The only difference is they have an Opinionated MAMA to make sure they play fair, take turns and use their big boy/girl voices.  Our kids are not responsible for solving the huge problems of the day, but our politicians are!

We have politicians SEXTing their privates to random strangers, visiting brothels, lying about love children, soliticiting sex in airport bathrooms, entire staffs quiting and old emails being published.  In the meantime, unemployment increases and the American people have no idea who to take seriously anymore.  What is really going on?  How do we get past the soap operas in Washington and face the real issues at hand.  But, maybe that's the point. Maybe we want a distraction and we don't want to face the ugly truths.  It’s just more fun to talk about the silly stuff…certainly more juicy...definitely more helpful to TV ratings than boring brass tacks, right? We want politicians who are camera ready and give great sound bites.  That's what's important on the political playground these days - not working to get things done, just distractions.  Should we even mention that we had ELMO and a comedian testifying in front of Congress? Have we all gone mad?

Millions of people throughout the world envy our political system, one in which candidates get to speak to their constituents directly and citizens that have the right to freely elect their own representatives.  So, why don't we take elections seriously and listen to important policy points?  Why don't we get into the nitty gritty details of the candidates platforms?  Why do we only want the snarky sound bites?  People say that they do not vote for several reasons: no time, not enough research on the issues, or that their single vote does not really matter in the larger scheme of things...blah, blah, blah...even more common is the sentiment that people are frustrated with the options on the ballot when they are asked to choose between two equally boring candidates.  The fact is when there is an interesting, polarizing candidate who says some wacky stuff, it gets us excited.  Then, we wonder why smart, hard-working candidates are so few and far between...because they are B-O-R-I-N-G and we don't vote for them!  The political discourse has withered into a game of tug-of-war and name-calling because it makes it more "fun" for us to stay engaged.  We actually like the drama...we want to hear from the gossip girls and we do everything we can to avoid being on the receiving end of the bullies, otherwise, we're left with the usual cliques.  The really cool people just walk away from the playground of politics.

So, yes, it's easy to see why grown ups may be turned off by politics.  But, we can’t give up now.  Not today.  Not in the face of all the enormous challenges that we have - not for ourselves, but for our children.  It’s time to show our kids that we care about the issues that face our generation and theirs.  We need to send the message that these are serious times and we need serious problem-solvers.  We will not accept the childish behavior of our politicians - we are already wiping noses and packing lunches for our own kids, so enough with the snotty behavior and free lunches from our elected leaders.  It’s time to remind ourselves that "we [indeed] get the government we deserve."  We might be temporarily entertained by all the playground antics, but our kids deserve better!